Last week I wrote about “How To Build A Wall,” perhaps one of my most important posts ever, seeking to bring some sanity to the divisiveness that many people have become trapped within.
I have had some of the best experiences at the grocery store. Just taking the time to smile and say "hi" to a person stocking shelves or being friendly to a weary and often ignored or rudely treated cashier can make such a difference to that person. Occasionally, I will ask them if they like to read, and if they say "yes," I offer them one of my books (I always carry extras in my car to give away). I'm amazed by how their faces brighten and countenances change just by being given such a simple gift. Now, when I visit the store, we greet one another with a smile and a wave. And we chat as they scan my groceries as would two old friends catching up. It's amazing how making another person feel "seen" and appreciated can bless one's own life.
I have had some of the best experiences at the grocery store. Just taking the time to smile and say "hi" to a person stocking shelves or being friendly to a weary and often ignored or rudely treated cashier can make such a difference to that person. Occasionally, I will ask them if they like to read, and if they say "yes," I offer them one of my books (I always carry extras in my car to give away). I'm amazed by how their faces brighten and countenances change just by being given such a simple gift. Now, when I visit the store, we greet one another with a smile and a wave. And we chat as they scan my groceries as would two old friends catching up. It's amazing how making another person feel "seen" and appreciated can bless one's own life.
I love this so much Barbara --- thank you for this inspiring, practical demonstration of building unity!